10.You Want to Be Happy

 You Want to Be Happy- What people want more than anything else is just to feel really good about themselves . We want to be happy and positive and have a sense of well being . Above all , what we really want is peace of mind , and you can only enjoy peace of mind when you feel confident in your ability to deal effectively with the requirements of life , with your family , your friends , your work , your customers , your social activities , and all the other things that you are involved in . The law of cause and effect tells us that if we want to enjoy the effect of high self - confidence , we need only engage in the causes of high self confidence . If we can find out what it is that other highly self - confident men and women think and say and do , and then do the same things , we will eventually get the same results . We will eventually feel the same way . We will eventually become unstoppable .